I know for a fact that each and every single one of here, have had our hearts broken. It could be from a crush or a bad break-up. Well here are some tips to help you out:
REMEMBER THAT PERSON ISN’T GOD:
You may have glorified your crush or your ex, a million times over in your mind. They seem so cool and so out of your reach. They may seem larger than life, but trust me, they aren’t. They are literally just another human being you spent a lot of thought on. And you know what over-thinking leads to. 11/10 times you will look back at this and say “Wow, he/she was not even worth it.”
IT’S POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY AGAIN:
Perhaps that person has made you very happy. Perhaps you guys hold some of the best moments of your life. Well listen here, you are going to have even more better ones in your life. I doubted if it was possible to love again, and I am here to tell you that YES, it is. It definitly is.
That’s the funny thing about happiness. It isn’t constant. It molds. One day you might fling a pillow against a wall and tell yourself you’ll never be happy again, because someone special has walked out of your life, and the next day the way the grass tickles against your feet will bring you joy.
You’ll soon learn that one person doesn’t hold the key to your happiness. The only person that holds it, is you.
GIVE YOURSELF TIME
It’s cliche but time does fix everything. What I advise is to block that person out, whether it’s through social media or real life. Avoid them. Spend some time away. This is easier said than done, but out of sight does mean out of mind, if you let it.
Go out with some friends. Buy a new lipstick or shirt. Get a new haircut. Try some new foods. Read a book. Write a book. Draw. Get your nails done. Visit some place new. Take a new class. Watch some cool, new movies.
I know sometimes getting your heart broken may seem like the end of the world, but it’s really just the beginning of a new one.
Well I hope I helped in some way. I have this section on my blog full of things to make someone feel better.
Here it is
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